Self-confidence /,ˌsɛlfˈkɒnfɪd(ə)ns/ a feeling of trust in one's abilities, qualities, and judgement
Honestly, many girls that I've met lacks self-esteem which results in lack of self-confidence along with self-love. If you are a self-confident person then it simply means you are proud of who you are and what your able to achieve. If you are someone who lacks self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-love feel free to read below as I explain what each one is and ways to improve self-esteem, self love and gaining self-confidence. There are self-esteem, self-love, and self-confidence challenges, quotes, and tips in this reading.
Self-confidence simply comes from your abilities. If you understand self-confidence then you know it makes you more successful and happier in life. That is why it is important! Having low self-esteem isn't quite something you should be proud of due to the fact that you may put yourself down, overthink and worry about others more than you worry about yourself. You have to love yourself before you love anyone else. Practicing self-love is important too. Visit my blog to learn about tips on how to go about each of these topics.
"LOVE YOURSELF FIRST AND IMPROVE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM."
"If you aren't good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone. Since you will resent the time and energy you gave another person that you aren't even giving to yourself."- Barbara De Angelis
SELF-ESTEEM /,sɛlfɛˈstiːm/ Confidence in one's own worth or abilities
LOW SELF-ESTEEM How one feel's about theirself overall (feeling bad about yourself, talking negativily, lack of self-respect, feeling unworthy)
SELF LOVE [self-luhv] Belief you hold that you are a valuable and worthy person (Having a positive view of yourself and you are confident
Ways to improve self-esteem
and practicing self-love
Regard for one's own well-being and happiness
Have days (morning, afternoon, evening) devoted to yourself
Grow from experience and move on
Step out of your comfort zone, do that thing that you've been afraid to do
Improve your weaknesses
Cut off the people who tells you what you are and who you are
Do not allow anyone to talk about you or tell you your insecure or tell you you're not good enough
Stay away from those who add nothing but drama and stress in your life
Appreciate yourself, and your efforts
Think about your life, and dreams
Relax, take a hot bath and read a good book
Go to bed early but before you do relax, unwind, pray or meditate
(ROMANS 8:38-39, JOSHUA 1:9, MICAH 6:8, PHILLIPPIANS 4:8)
Things you still beat yourself up about or people that hurt you? Remove the toxic. Let it/them go
Surround yourself around people who aren't always negative and truly cares about you
Spend time with those who are supportive and less time with those who are destructive
See your mistakes as lessons (VALUABLE) and handle failures in a more positive way
Think about if your happy with your spiritual path? Re-evaluate your spirituality
Understand you're not in this alone and it is okay to ask for help when you need it.
Write down things that you can appreciate about yourself
Do the right thing
Expect others to read your mind and meet your needs
(Learn) Forgive
Tell others what they mean to you, express your feelings
Take care of yourself
Learn more
Eat healthy
Drink water
Smile more
Celebrate accomplishments big and small
STOP COMPARING YOURSELF
You should never have to compare yourself to anyone, keep being you, and stay focused on only you!
Have realistic expectations of yourself, be reasonable with your expectations
Embrace your individuality, your uniqueness is what makes you special the most
Find a meaning in what you do. What you're doing matters and it is important that you realize that
Encouragement could help as well. Find encouragement from other people's successes. Be inspired by their work.
Accept what you can not change and change what you can not accept. Change whatever you feel as though needs changing and once you do, compare yourself to see how much you actually changed for the better. As far as things you can not change, accept the fact that maybe that is how things are suppose to be. Learn to love it.
Just chill, Don't stress it, Go with the flow!
You have to keep in mind everything happens for a reason, and everything is temporary. Emotions, thoughts, and people. If it comes, let it. If it goes, let it. Stop thinking so hard about everything, if it feels right just go with the flow.
BE POSITIVE, STAY POSITIVE
Be happier, think positive, and find greater success. Complete the "Be More Positive Challenge" and "31 Days of Self Love questions" to improve. Laugh. Write down everything you are grateful for. Practice self care. Build your confidence. Improve your self-esteem. Talk to someone who makes you feel good. Read a good book. Encourage others. Be confident that you can overcome challenges. Take notes. Exercise. Spread the positivity to those who you surround you. Don't stress yourself. Do more listening, hoping, believing, understanding, loving, smiling, working out and less talking, planning, complaining, worrying, overthinking, being insecure, week, ignorant, hateful, and doubting.
"REGARDLESS OF HOW ANYONE ELSE FEELS ABOUT ME, I AM GOING TO CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY AND COMPLETELY LOVE MYSELF TODAY." THE ONLY THING THAT YOU HAVE THAT NO ONE ELSE HAS IS YOU, YOUR VOICE. MIND. STORY. VISION. SO DO WHATEVER, SAY WHATEVER AS ONLY YOU CAN. STOP TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYONE ELSE AND PUTTING YOURSELF DOWN. JUST KNOW YOU ARE CONFIDENT, BEAUTIFUL AND CAPABLE. DO NOT LET ANYONE TELL YOU DIFFERENTLY.
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